RULES

Take them seriously. In some cases offenders will simply be reminded that what they are doing is not acceptable. This does of course depend on the severity of the infraction. And if a particular kinkster simply won’t be good, seriously offends or harasses, willingly endangers the safety of themselves or others or becomes known as a repeat rule violator they will be asked to leave and will be barred from future events and activities.

General Rules and Etiquette

  • NO SEX, No QUeening, No prozzie services- BDSM creativity only

  • No topping from the bottom

  • Discretion is a two way street.

  • Be punctual, late arrivals are dismissals

  • Be respectful of My experience and privacy

  • Tribute is non-negotiable and non-refundable

  • Deposits required

  • Men are my toys

  • No phones in My presence

  • KEEP READING THERE IS MORE TO LEARN BELOW.

Chatting is something that many a male wants from Me, I empathise with your experience- you need safety, comfort and discretion. 

From your side of the scenario, you are not seeing the daily barrage I receive- multiple emails, requests, wankers which I have already dealt with, and this is why Mistress can often seem impatient. However, on the other hand,  If you truly value ME and want me to feel safe seeing you, or to continue to exist, you contribute to ME.  If you don't understand this philosophy, I can only imagine you are selfish and interacting with you, you will continue to cross My boundaries or disrespect me, perhaps you even are active in unsafe behaviors in general.  I can no longer allow people like this access to Me, so you must tread very carefully in this area. 

Even if you have seen me for sessions, if I am super busy putting a training event together for several slaves or you are excited by all My pics and videos, you may feel desire building, energy growing, energy which I clearly CREATED from My creativity and hard work, otherwise it wouldn’t be there. That's the perfect time to pay Me to chat, pay Me to make a video for you, send a tribute and a polite request for your favorite fetish content. It's entirely not appropriate for you to feel entitled to My time and energy for your fetishes and desires, while you refuse to honor My desire. This is how good toys get exiled from My service. Tribute is part of my love languages, Tribute is necessary, tribute is inherent in consent.

EXPECTING ME TO HONOR YOUR FETISH WITHOUT HONORING THIS IS NONCONSENSUAL.

I WILL TREAT IT AS NONCONSENSUAL.

As with anywhere else in life, you get what you give.  My most generous loyal and useful slaves often receive the most exciting exploration of their fantasies. My sense of peace is imperative to My sustainability in this lifestyle. I don't call Myself a Goddess because I am not human, I am called a Goddess because I will use every ounce of My energy and every substance at My disposal to create entire fantasy worlds for My subjects.  After doing this over a decade, I am aware My human side is just as important and without care, will not sustain the Goddess.

A WORD ABOUT SAMS


What is a SAM? In the scene we would refer to this as a “smart ass masochist”

Many years ago a man wanted to see Me for a heavy paddling. We arranged things and he was directed to the dungeon.  Almost 15 minutes after he was supposed to be starting his session, I am fully dressed in Domme wear, and he is actually dawdling on the street, acting like he was lost, talking to people on the street, with his bag of paddles. I sent him away.  

Years later he admits to me this was because he wanted me to be angry and he wanted a more severe paddling.  THIS IS NOT CONSENSUAL. 

If you are not safe sane and consensual enough to keep bdsm play to appropriate time and place, you won't be seeing Me. If I sense these behaviors in you, pushing boundaries to upset me, trying to make me angry for a heavier beating, in our actual scene, it could go fine or it could result in a scene being stopped completely and you being dismissed.  IF you engage in any of these behaviors OUTSIDE of a scene, you will be dismissed.  If you cannot engage in SAFE SANE CONSENSUAL and DISCREET activities we are not suited to each other.

BDSM is not ABUSE.